The stressful culture has made most of us splurge on different luxurious stuffs. Some would luxuriate with a shopping spree. There are people who are into buying collectibles or rare items that they are interested with. Some, are into massages, may it be Swedish, Shiatsu, Thai, or Erotic. This erotic massage that I’ll be discussing is exclusively for your men. So, read on and learn how you could give your partner some sweet treats.
People say that the best in thing in life are free. You may give your man some expensive gifts but the priceless ones are far more valuable. I myself enjoy receiving some gadgets that I could play with, but a surprise treat would definitely be a cherry on top. Moreover, an erotic massage is an opportunity for me and my partner to know each other better.
This massage that I have been talking about is not like your everyday treat. The activity demands for open minded people. Hence, if you are ready for an adventure, let’s begin. When we are talking about erotic, we want a contact that would intensify the senses of the body. In addition, it seeks to heighten the heat or sexual desire of the person who’s receiving the massage tantric massage. Since we are talking about your man, we would be focusing on his hot spots.
For the world of men, it is not just the penis. He has another sexual part that he might not be aware of, that you could teach him. It is his prostate. No, we don’t need any instrument to access this area. You are actually geared to give your man the perfect massage. This kind of touch therapy would literally blow his mind.
The prostate is a very sensitive gland. Just like the penis, this too has millions of nerve endings. Thus, if you massage it, he’ll feel electrified, in a very good sense of course. Just to give you a little trivia about the prostate. Its size is that of a chestnut and it looks like a walnut. It takes care of a vital compound that makes up the semen. So, the release that he’ll be experiencing is different from his usual one.
The treat that you will be giving him would free his prostate from the alkaline substance that it produces. Don’t panic if you see a slight increase with his release. It is actually healthy. According to experts, a prostate orgasm is a practice that could lessen the man’s risk of prostate cancer. Hence, you are not only making him happy, you are also lengthening his life expectancy.
Let’s proceed to the massage itself. You may want to give him a back massage before you do this. Maybe just a little, since if you prolong this, he might doze off. Use it as your foreplay, or main event, be creative. Make sure that your hands are clean, trim your fingers, and get a lubricant.
His prostate is lodged between the rectum and the bladder. So, the access would be on his anus. Don’t be afraid, your lubricant is your best friend. You may give your partner a little introduction as this might be new to him, but if both of you are adventurous feel free to go right ahead.
Figure out in what position you are comfortable with. Then, spread some lubricant into your middle finger. Gently insert your finger into his anus. Around two centimeters away from his anus would be the prostate. If you feel the bump, you are in the right place. Gently tap or massage it in a circular motion. Do this for a few minutes and watch the magic happen.